Use the Socratic Method to Easily Win Arguments

Arguments become heated and get out of hand when anger enters into the equation, often leaving both parties frustrated and upset. Using Socratic questioning in an argument, however, can help people see things from your perspective without causing unnecessary conflict.

Rather than making points, the Socratic method concentrates on asking questions to help both parties think about the situation rather than just verbalize their (often exaggerated) feelings. Redditor darkcity2 explains:

[L]et’s say your girlfriend is angry about you coming home late one night. She says, “You didn’t call me! I was so worried, and you were probably out at the bar hitting on girls!” You could respond, “No baby, I wasn’t, I swear.” But effectively this is two heads butting; the one with greater force wins. Instead, ask questions. This puts you in a position of control without being aggressive, and forces the listener to accept their own hypocrisy/flawed reasoning. Say something like: “Why are you upset? What do you think I was doing? Is it that I’m late that bothers you, or that you can’t trust me?” Rather than arguing back and forth, you’re encouraging her to express how she feels, and it seems like you’re making an effort to listen. Eventually she’ll either forgive you, or you’ll see that you were wrong, or she’ll see that she was being unreasonable.

I gave a very sexist example, but this works for heated debates as well. Rather than saying, Animals aren’t meant to be in captivity, say, Do you think animals were meant to be in captivity? Wording your point of view in the form of a question forces them to see it from your perspective whether they like it or not, because a question psychologically puts them in a position where they have to answer it.
It’s a pretty simple idea and an easy conflict resolution tactic. Next time you find yourself in an argument, give the Socratic method a shot.

All though life never beaten

You’re five years old and there are 3 year olds acting better than you.
You’re nine years old and there are 5 year olds more loving that you.
You’re thirteen years old and there are 9 year olds love god more than you.
You’re seventeen years old, get away from me Satan.
You’re twenty-four years old, show appreciation for what god and we have done for you.
You’re thirty years old and are so far removed from the teachings of god that we instilled in you.

Definition of Perfect

PERFECT. adjective. having all the required or desirable elements, qualities, or characteristics; as good as it is possible to be.

As our needs change we require a different traits in whatever we are describing. A perfect god would need to be ever changing to match the forever changing of its creations. But god is a non changing type of being?! So how can this be? Very simple, for god to be perfect, its creations must be unchanging as well. There goes freedom of a freemind which G.O.D. brags about. For humans to be perfect they must all have the same needs so as to make god perfect….

…to be continued.

I’ve got no strings

I’ve got no strings
To hold me down
To make me fret, or make me frown
I had strings
But now I’m free
There are no strings on me

Hi-ho the me-ri-o
That’s the only way to go
I want the world to know
Nothing ever worries me

Dutch puppet
You have no strings
Your arms is free
To love me by the Zuider Zee
Ya, ya, ya
If you would woo
I’d bust my strings for you

French puppet
You’ve got no strings
Comme ci comme ca
Your savoire-faire is ooh la la!
I’ve got strings
But entre nous
I’d cut my strings for you

Russian puppet
Down where the Volga flows
There’s a Russian rendezvous
Where me and Ivan go
But I’d rather go with you, hey!

“In The End”

(It starts with one)
One thing I don’t know why
It doesn’t even matter how hard you try
Keep that in mind, I designed this rhyme
To explain in due time
(All I know)
Time is a valuable thing
Watch it fly by as the pendulum swings
Watch it count down to the end of the day
The clock ticks life away
(It’s so unreal)
Didn’t look out below
Watch the time go right out the window
Trying to hold on but didn’t even know
I wasted it all just to watch you go

I kept everything inside and even though I tried, it all fell apart
What it meant to be will eventually be a memory of a time when…

I tried so hard
And got so far
But in the end
It doesn’t even matter
I had to fall
To lose it all
But in the end
It doesn’t even matter

One thing, I don’t know why
It doesn’t even matter how hard you try
Keep that in mind, I designed this rhyme
To remind myself how
I tried so hard
In spite of the way you were mocking me
Acting like I was part of your property
Remembering all the times you fought with me
I’m surprised it got so (far)
Things aren’t the way they were before
You wouldn’t even recognize me anymore
Not that you knew me back then
But it all comes back to me
In the end

You kept everything inside and even though I tried, it all fell apart
What it meant to me will eventually be a memory of a time when…

I tried so hard
And got so far
But in the end
It doesn’t even matter
I had to fall
To lose it all
But in the end
It doesn’t even matter

I’ve put my trust in you
Pushed as far as I can go
For all this
There’s only one thing you should know
I’ve put my trust in you
Pushed as far as I can go
For all this
There’s only one thing you should know

I tried so hard
And got so far
But in the end
It doesn’t even matter
I had to fall
To lose it all
But in the end
It doesn’t even matter

ways to explore boobs

  1. stroke
  2. back of finger
  3. back of hand
  4. pinky swear
  5. lick
  6. pierce
  7. tattoo
  8. coloring
  9. sharpie
  10. electra shock
  11. 9v battery
  12. fan
  13. TP
  14. dog shit
  15. dog tongue
  16. dog piss
  17. dog shit
  18. cat piss
  19. scratch
  20. dissect
  21. suture
  22. xray
  23. sunglasses
  24. magnifying glass
  25. google glass
  26. google watch
  27. facetime
  28. 3d printer
  29. 2d printer
  30. 3d glasses
  31. crystal shots
  32. handcuffs
  33. talk to them
  34. whisper to them
  35. suck on them
  36. sleep on them
  37. sleep in her nap
  38. massage them
  39. have massage given with them
  40. share them
  41. like them
  42. eat them
  43. try to make a baby with them
  44. feed another baby
  45. bite
  46. have dog bite
  47. have cat bite
  48. beer bong
  49. smoke a joint
  50. i wrote this in 2 minutes
  51. what do you expect? 

Time and Space – What is it?

To put this simply, welcome to the matrix of a universe. We need to define a few terms. Matrix is an environment or material in which something develops; or a mold in which something is cast or shaped. Let’s define universe, all existing matter and space considered as a whole. We have either a matrix from universe or a universe of matrices add this together and we have multiple universes inside each other creating new universes of matrices. Now we ask what universe is holding such a matrices of universes matrix. If you think that’s a tongue twister, it was funny writing it.

Now for a some new terms. A galaxy is a system of millions or billions of stars, together with gas and dust, held together by gravitational attraction. Then planets is a celestial body moving in an elliptical orbit around a star. So now we go deeper or is it just a start. Look at what a planet is and where is it orbiting? Some star. Now legends or myths claim this Star is the center of the universe. so this star is the center of universes of matrices and matrices of universes to infinity and each is it’s own center. You may be asking yourself why so many centers or are they centers of anything? Now to add even more tongue twisters. Let’s take the western bible as it says, the kingdom is within you. Wow! That would make each one of us this center but, i thought the sun was the center.

To be continued… my brain is trying to slow down too much to write this….

Cannot is sometimes also spelled can not

cannot

can·not

  [kan-ot, ka-not, kuh-]  Show IPA

verb
1.
a form of ·can not.

Idioms

2.
cannot but, have no alternative but to: We cannot but choose otherwise.
Origin: 
1350–1400; Middle English


Cannot  is sometimes also spelled can not.  The one-word spelling is by far the more common: Interestrates simply cannot continue at their present level.  The contraction can’t  is most common in speech andinformal writing.

She’s in Your Head – Poetry on Fire Series

Originally posted on Kendall F. Person, thepublicblogger:

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She was no stripper with a heart of gold, that was for sure. A heart of steel, more like.

- Shannon Celebi, Author

Pole Worker Poetry on Fire series

Stripper’s Dream by Behance

She’s in Your Head – Poetry on Fire Series
by Kendall F. Person

Through your eyes, she enters the mind,
hers emitting desire, inside they run cold.
Lights dim, curtains raised
she strikes a pose of sexual intent
but mind in control
a trap for fools she lays.

Music explodes, volume in check
partners in crime, no discotheque.
A seductive walk, on her way to the pole.
All moves rehearsed, showtime
you have to believe, worth every cent.
Sliding, grinding, bumping, thrusting:
each action has a purpose, your reaction she wants.

Her eyes scan the room, you have no clue
why she zooms in on you.
Reason leaves  you. A dream come true.
Dollars in your pocket, rent has come due

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